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Meditation for Beginners: How to Actually Start

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Start small and specific: sit comfortably for five minutes, rest your attention on your breathing, and each time your mind drifts, notice where it went and bring it back. That returning is the practice, not a sign you are doing it wrong. Do it at the same time each day for a week before you change anything, and know that meditation is not risk-free for everyone.

What do you need?

Very little. A chair or cushion, a timer and a few minutes when you will not be interrupted. The NCCIH describes meditation as a variety of practices used to calm the mind and enhance well-being, some of which keep attention on one sensation such as the breath. Breathing is a good first anchor because it is always with you.

How do you do a first session?

  1. Set a timer for five minutes so you are not checking the clock.
  2. Sit upright but relaxed, feet on the floor, hands resting.
  3. Notice your breath where you feel it clearly, at the nose, chest or belly. Do not change it.
  4. When a thought pulls you away, name it briefly, such as “planning” or “worrying,” and return to the breath.
  5. When the timer ends, take a moment before you get up and notice how you feel.

Why does your mind keep wandering?

It is expected. The Wikipedia article on mind-wandering defines it as thoughts that are unrelated to the task at hand and not prompted by anything around you. In a breathing practice, every drift is a chance to practice noticing and returning. A session in which you came back twenty times is not a failed session.

What gets in the way, and what helps?

  • No time: tie the practice to something you already do daily, such as after brushing your teeth, and keep it to five minutes.
  • Sleepiness: sit up straighter, open your eyes slightly, or practice earlier in the day.
  • Restlessness: try a walking practice, paying attention to each step instead of the breath.
  • Doubt about doing it right: if you noticed you had drifted and came back, you did it right.

Is meditation safe for everyone?

Not necessarily. The NCCIH says meditation is usually considered to have few risks, but that too few studies have looked for harmful effects to make definite statements about safety. It reports that a 2020 review of 83 studies found about 8 percent of participants had a negative effect from meditation, similar to the rate reported for psychological therapies, with anxiety and depression the most commonly reported. It also advises against using meditation to replace conventional care or to put off seeing a health care provider about a medical problem.

When to stop and get help

Stop the practice and talk to a professional if meditation regularly leaves you more anxious, low or unsettled, if it brings up distressing memories, or if you are being treated for a mental health condition and have not yet discussed it with your clinician. If you want to continue, a teacher with clinical training or a structured program such as mindfulness-based stress reduction gives you someone to talk these experiences through with.

This article is general information, not medical or psychological advice; talk with a licensed clinician about your own situation.

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